on marriage

I need to resign to the fact that I should marry someone just because I’m getting older. I want to WANT TO MARRY someone because I feel HE’s the ONE.

It is not enough that people push me to it, because it’s me that’s gonna live with him for the rest of my life. And the everyday life with him is too much to consider.

I don’t want to be in that situation just because it is convenient. I don’t want to involve myself in an institution just because I was pressured. I want to be in that institution because I know I NEED TO BE IN IT.

It doesn’t bother me that I am not married because as a single lady, I am having fun. I am doing the things that make me happy. It is the greatest gift I can give myself at this point in time because I CAN. I don’t get why people around me get all too worried about me, I’m not dying, no one dies from having a fun and adventurous single life.

Needless to say, I love my life. I love my process. I choose things myself and I choose the ones who I want to stay.  This is my journey and every journey is different amongst us.

I’d be lying if I’d say that I don’t want to get married. Damn, I’ve been dreaming about it since I was 12! Who doesn’t want to have someone by your side? For better or for worst, for richer or for poorer?

BUT because when it comes to marriage, no matter how indecisive I sometimes get, I want to be SURE that it is what I want and WHO I DO IT WITH. And obviously, it will come JUST NOT YET.


-->
So, instead of telling me things about marrying quickly, I’d appreciate if people can join me in prayer because FOR THE RECORD, I want to MARRY RIGHT instead of MARRY QUICKLY. 

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Friendship is spelled with END

Image
As much as we want to take old friends with us to the next level, sometimes, it’s better to just leave them as they are. I have always been a very loyal friend. The type to make an enemy of someone who messes up with my friend. I’d like to think that that’s just how I view friendships – worth protecting for. I am usually cool. I don’t take things like everything is such a big deal. I’ve never been that problematic friend with various issues. However, with the recent friendship situation that I am in, I am reconsidering the type of friend I am and exactly the type of friend I have. As a friend, I am slow to process anger. I get annoyed, yes, but most of my friends don’t really get the gravity of what I’m feeling because I don't show it. Normally, I take a step back and process it on my own. But not anymore. I have made a vow to myself. With relationships, romantic or friendship, I would never compromise my own emotions. I refuse to be the absorber. I refuse to be a doormat
Read more

how to get a band score 6 and up without a review center

Image
HOW TO GET A BAND 6 and UP IN IELTS WITHOUT HAVING TO ENROL IN A REVIEW CENTER? What is IELTS? According to this site : The International English Language Testing System (IELTS) measures the language proficiency of people who want to study or work where English is used as a language of communication. It uses a nine-band scale to clearly identify levels of proficiency, from non-user (band score 1) through to expert (band score 9). TEST FORMAT There are two types of IELTS. Academic or General Training. Listening and Speaking are the same for both tests, but for Reading and Writing sections, the subject matter is different depending on which test you take. The total test time is 2 hours and 45 minutes. The details description of the test format is found here . I did a GENERAL TRAINING IELTS exam. I registered for IELTS via IDP online. STEP 1: You have to register in this site. Please note you need to upload a valid ID (e.g. pass
Read more

Thanksgiving weekend

Image
It’s the thanksgiving weekend! I can't believe I am now part of this celebration being strategically planted here. I love this season. It incites gratefulness. In a world where people become highly entitled to anything, we look deeper within ourselves and realize that it’s not the world’s obligation to give us anything. In fact, and to put it bluntly, the world does not owe us anything. And with this comes the appreciation that you were chosen, you were blessed, you were fortunate to be given the opportunity to receive something. Maybe you did something right or maybe you got lucky? Either way, the fact that not everyone gets the same favor, nudges you to remain grounded and grateful. A few months ago, I met with old friends. I was happy to share my journey here in Canada. As the conversation got deeper, I was asked, “Are you not planning to move to the US?”, I was literally speechless. I was unable to answer. I smiled. It’s not the question that is hard to answer, it is th
Read more